Posts Tagged ‘accomplish’

Monday Mojo: Short Term Pain for Long Term Gain

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“I’m not a morning person” I can’t tell you how many times I have heard that over the years.

So often people talk about how they just can’t squeeze in the most important activities in their life because “I’m not a morning person”.  When we are young and with little or no responsibility except for ourselves…or retired and our kids are out of the house, it is easier to slip in those important activities after that first cup of Joe in the morning, at lunch, in the afternoon, in the early evening.  For me, that is not an option…and my guess is for most of your reading this that is not an option either.  We have kids, house, lunches to make, work, kids homework, little league, dinner to make, grocery shopping, wash…the list goes on and on.

Trust me, when my alarm goes off in the morning at 4:45, I am not all fired up to jump out of bed and “hit it”.   Candidly, many mornings I am telling myself “you have got to be kidding me…it feels like I just closed my eyes”.  But I know the short term pain and discipline of putting my feet on the floor and getting started with my day is easier than the long term pain of regret, disappointment and not accomplishing my goals.

Let’s face it…for many of us we have tried for years and years to squeeze in those most important activities sometime during the day, but then life gets in the way and the most important activities end up taking second fiddle to the chaos.  I am not saying you have to wake up at 4:45, but if you really want to get those most important activities done, unless you are an anomaly, you probably need to do it first thing of the day before the chaos begins, while most of the rest of the world is still sleeping.

Remember, we are our biggest asset and if we don’t make a commitment to take care of our body, mind and soul no one else will.  You can’t delegate it, you can’t run down to the store and buy it…you have to have the discipline to JUST DO IT!!!!!

We had our Intero Achievement Awards a couple of weeks ago and before I got up to give my talk this video on “The Creation of Monday Morning MOJO” was played.  I thought you would get a kick out of it.

“I am a morning person.”

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Monday Morning Mojo: Don’t Make Life a “Crash Diet”

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Applying the “crash diet” method to anything in life simply doesn’t work.

Life is a marathon. Make sure you are going at a pace you can maintain so you finish the race.

So, many times in life people make commitments they just can’t keep. Often at first those over extended commitments are kept, but only for a short period of time. They simply become too much, too fast and end up impossible to maintain. And if they are maintained it’s usually with compromised efforts resulting in a job poorly done.

We all have goals we want to accomplish in our life and there are lots of different ways we can go about accomplishing them. The one thing I know for sure is we will never accomplish anything if we try and do it all.  We have to pick the few most important, and create a system enabling us to go at pace we can maintain for the long haul.  If we can stick to our plan – we can experience the benefits of “The Slight Edge“.

I know people who one week do this, the next week do that, and the next week are onto something else. They never give anything an opportunity to gain traction all because they make commitments they cannot keep. This type of person ends up living in a life of frustration, anxiety, disappointment, and anger.

Remember it’s the accumulation effect of the small things we do over a long period of time that will make the HUGE difference.  It’s not the HUGE things we do over the short term, and it is not about doing the most. Make a few changes you can commit to for a lifetime, don’t try and jam in too much and you will experience magic. It is why things like crash diets never work. You may lose the 10, 20, 50, or 100 pounds quickly, but I promise you will gain it all back and then some. The key is to create systems and a lifestyle you can maintain for a lifetime – not just a week, a month, or a year.

Check out this book – do what it says, and experience the “Slight Edge” breakthrough:  The Slight Edge

Make it a powerful week!!!!!