Posts Tagged ‘balance’

Wednesday Wellness: The choice is yours

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As some of you might know, my favorite little treat is a chocolate covered peanut butter malt ball. I love them! Now, hey, I’m human and if you put 10 in front of me, I’d eat all 10! So, how I work it is when I am at my favorite grocery store, Whole Foods, I buy one. Yep, one. So, I was at the checkout and the cashier was giving me a hard time (in a fun way) about only buying one, so I told him I buy one at a time, but I do this nearly every day! The cashier then enlightened me that at the end of the year, I could pile up 365 malt balls to show how much I had eaten! Wow, now that was depressing! I quickly bantered however that if I piled up how many vegetables I had in the course of a year, I could fill up a room (or two!). When I put that in perspective, it didn’t seem so out of balance; especially when I add on the hours of workouts each week I am dedicated to.

This is life, we make small choices every day which we don’t think mean much, but when we make the choice say to go for a 10 minute workout, thinking it won’t add up to much, in the course of a year that’s over 60 hours of training and could equal as much as 10 pounds of calories burned!! The flip side is when we choose NOT to workout, thinking it doesn’t add up, that could potentially tack ON 10 pounds in the course of a year!

These little choices appear every day. How many nibbles do you have of your kids’ leftovers (every day)? Do you conversely take the time to workout to balance out the added calories? How often do you leave a meeting early, learning a little less than your coworkers? How often do you take steps 2 at a time instead of one at a time? There are so many paths we can take towards health, vitality, healing, energy and so many paths we can take towards sickness, obesity, lethargy and laziness.

Now I can tell you I am savoring each delicious daily malt ball, and to be honest, I did take some time out during the holidays when I wasn’t having any treats at all, so my malt ball pile might be a little smaller; but I do try to be more focused on the nutritious food I eat and the healthy choices I create in my life. This isn’t always easy, it isn’t always without struggle, but it is a lifestyle and one I hope all of us can dedicate a little attention to; one which needs patience and daily care.


Wednesday Wellness: Yin and Yang

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In my line of work I have the opportunity to work with athletes. Athleticism is an inherit trait in all of us, however some who I know go a little above and beyond. What’s intriguing to me in watching these athletes is the lack of balance of “yin and yang.” I notice that so often the “yang” is practiced daily (work hard, play hard, burn yourself out, fill every moment with something active) and the yin is forgotten.

In observing this, I have seen many injuries lately from back problems, knee issues, rib ailments and even the likes of colds and flu symptoms.

Sometimes when our spirit resists rest, our bodies decide to take over and shut us down with either an injury and/or an ailment.

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could find this balance of yin and yang without being forced to slow down?

I believe this time of year is a great time to take a little down time and create the balance that so many of us need; before our bodies do it for us!

I hope you consider taking time out, yin time, whatever that means to you and simply enjoy the joy of “being.”


Wednesday Wellness: Pennies from heaven

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Every morning, I write my 10/10’s. For those who aren’t familiar with this, it’s a meditation of sorts where I begin my day writing 10 things I am grateful for and 10 things I want to attract each day. It’s a beautiful way to start my day. When I write what I wish to attract, one focus is I always ask for unexpected income.

I shared this with a friend a while back and an analogy of a penny came up. How many times do we wish we had more money, and then when we see a penny on the ground we step right over it? Well, we are attracting income, but when the universe gives us what we ask for, we don’t acknowledge it. When I realized the importance of this statement, I always pick up the pennies and make a gesture of gratitude that the universe is answering my requests.

I shared THIS story with another friend and she said that it reminded her of a story by a close friend of hers.

A few years ago, a good friend of hers had a son who passed away while in college. It was devastating to her friend of course. During an exceptionally hard time, he asked for a “sign” that his son was ok. Nearly immediately after this, her friend saw a penny on the ground and saw this as a sign that his son was alright and reaching out. From that day forward, he always saved the pennies he found and shared this moment with another very good friend of his who also started saving his “found” pennies.

Every few months when the pennies would reach several dollars one friend would call the other and say “it’s time to have lunch on your son”. This was a way they could reconnect and honor the memory of the soul passed away.

What does this have to do with fitness, nutrition, and wellness? Indirectly…everything! So often we go through our days in such a hurry we don’t acknowledge the pennies from heaven and the gifts surrounding us in every moment of the day. We step over the signs thrown our way thinking we know best and often ignore the answers right in front of us.

What if we cherished the pennies, the “small nuggets” of gold life brings us, then savor them to honor something bigger than ourselves when the time arrives?

This truly is what a balanced life is like; what being in the moment and honoring our health and wellbeing is about!

Try and cherish your pennies from heaven; see if you can pause and notice the small gifts life brings you towards an overall better balanced and giving life.


Wednesday Wellness: Life Planning

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Over the past week I have shared this analogy with several of my clients and it “sticks”!

Let’s say you are the family planner and financial budgeter. It’s October and you realize Christmas and property taxes are right around the corner. You know you will be spending quite a bit of money in December. Do you:

a)     Spend like there’s no tomorrow and worry about your credit card balances December 20th, hoping you’ll get a free offer for a new credit card around December 15th?

b)     In October, budget in order to be in the black come December 1st so that when you do need to buy presents you won’t go too far in the red

c)     Don’t worry about it much because you’ve already saved your money last summer and you have enough in the bank in order to safely skate through December without going into a national deficit.

Now let’s say you are going on a big trip with friends and/or family to Italy this summer. There’s wine, pasta, pizza, gelato and pounds to be gained (lots of them).   You are hoping to be in the best shape of your life before you travel to Italy. Do you…

a)     Crash diet 2 weeks before the trip, cleansing, detoxing, fasting and starving so you can have pizza, pasta and gelato (knowing you’ll gain it all back because you’ve only lost water and completely messed up your metabolism)

b)     Start to get in shape a couple of months before the big trip, working on your fitness, watching what you eat and starting to lose a few pounds before your adventure, hoping you can keep it off.

c)      Are already in shape because you planned on being in phenomenal shape several months before the event while at the same time creating lifelong habits of how to travel, what to eat and how to exercise; no matter where you are?   You know that when you get to Italy you will indulge a little but you will feel so great about your health, you won’t feel possessed to eat pizza and gelato like you will never have it again…ever?

Of course in each scenario, best case is “c”, and with “b” you can get by (barely). Unfortunately, so many of us choose “a” in our life, not just with our health and our budget…but everything. We put off what we know we need or want to do because somehow we make ourselves believe in the 11th hour we can always pull it together.

The problem isn’t that we pull it together; it’s that we never plan for what happens in the moment after we dodge the bullet. We stay on this inevitable roller coaster through life and are always living in the 9th inning so to speak.

It is late spring now. Most likely you have something fun planned for later in the summer which involves activities and indulging. Consider starting your spring training early and go into the home stretch already having achieved your goals!


What would you do for one million dollars?

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If you were paid $1 million to put on 100 pounds, would you do it?

In the last couple of weeks, I’ve been curious about this question and have asked about a dozen people of all walks of fitness and health what their answer would be. 

What I have found interesting, is those who are fit, and/or who have fought hard to get in shape immediately said no to this question – without a moment of hesitation. 

Those who weren’t in shape and hadn’t made their fitness a priority – but of course wished they were in better shape – said yes. Without delay each person continued to say how they would spend part of the money hiring the right people to help them lose the weight. Although, they don’t do it now.

I found it fascinating that the decision was so split down the middle.

Those who said no realized the value of balance and health and what this dangerous act would do to their bodies. It’s not simply a matter of putting on weight then losing weight. It’s a matter of what happens to the inside of our bodies when we stress it out. There is a potential to develop diabetes, high cholesterol, oxidation and a plethora of other ailments. 

It also deteriorates our momentum, our self-love and our mental attitude. 

One of my trainers expressed that he works with so many people, day-in and day-out, who treasure their fitness gains. Each get exhilarated when they’re able to bench mark what they have accomplished – he couldn’t imagine how difficult it would be to reverse this momentum.

I’m sharing with you, the day before Thanksgiving, the day before one of the biggest eating days of the year – to consider how important your health is to you, and what you are willing to do in order to keep your body and mind young and in amazing shape. 

Enjoy the Spirit of the Day!