Posts Tagged ‘diet’

Wednesday Wellness: Your Diet and The Law of Attraction

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The other day I was listening to the “Law of Attraction” CD, by Jerry and Esther Hicks; one that I have listened to several times. This particular one is about the law of attraction and money.

Jerry and Esther Hicks use an analogy that if you put $100.00 in your pocket and walk around looking at items you can buy but don’t, by the end of the day you will have saved potentially thousands of dollars. The theory is attracting income and wealth by “vibrationally” pretending to spend.

Shortly after listening to this portion I went to Costco on a Saturday (can you picture it now) and there must have been 15-20 food sampling stands. I was amazed at how many people were standing in line waiting to fill up on empty calories! Then I thought, “What if we tallied up how many calories we would have eaten (for instance at Costco) by the end of the shopping trip and attracted actual ‘wealth and health’ by saving hundreds and possibly thousands of calories by not spending our daily calorie allowance?”

I further went on in the week to pay attention to how many times I “could have” eaten something extra and unplanned and chose not to. This showed me how many actual calories I eliminated from my diet every day.

If we pay attention to how often we pass on food options that aren’t our planned meals and/or snacks, we can become more and more aware of the weight we want to be. This attracts, or causes mindful choices, and ultimately is a key component in reaching and holding on to a healthy lifestyle.

I realize this is some heavy thinking, but take it just for a day. Take a pause each time you grab at a snack that you weren’t intending on eating, “Bank” the calories and tally up how much you’ve saved at the end of the day. You might have a nice little health fund!


Thoughts on Leadership: Take your MEDS and become an effective leader

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The constant pressure to perform and stress of solving difficult problems is part of a leader’s role. It can be easy to let these factors weigh on your personal health, but it’s crucial to be on top of your game and productive at all times. Poor nutrition and poor sleep habits are ineffective coping strategies.

Take time to slow down and you’ll find that this peaceful state of mind contributes to more effective leadership. To think or reflect, especially in a calm and deliberate manner is the kind of meditation that Buddha, Jesus Christ and Mahatma Gandhi engaged in to train, calm and empty the mind. Recent brain research shows that M-E-D-S – meditation, exercise, diet and sleep – can actually improve performance. “MEDS” aren’t just actions you perform occasionally, but part of your daily life.

As the empowering life coach, author, trainer and inspirational speaker Matthew Ferry explains: “It’s hard to be happy when you’re not healthy. When you are feeling physically down, it’s difficult to experience happiness. It takes a tremendous amount of work. And so, what I recommend for people to be happy is to take their MEDS. MEDS is an acronym for meditation, exercise, diet, and sleep.”

Here’s what we mean by MEDS for great leaders:

M: Meditation

One of the main benefits of meditation is that it helps shape who we are and how we interact with others. The biggest misconception about meditation is that our thoughts or ideas just appear in our heads. On the contrary, we choose what we think. It’s simple, if we think something will go wrong or that we will be ineffective, then to each one of us that is true. Now if we think the opposite and think we can be successful, intellectual and powerful, then to each one of us again, this is true. The idea here is that we are what we think about and we become what we think about every day.

E: Exercise

Another strategy for maintaining effective leadership is to exercise regularly. Studies have proven that those who exercise on a daily basis rated significantly higher on overall leadership effectiveness than those who do not exercise. An excellent example of an effective leader who is dedicated to working out every day is Intero’s Chairman Bob Moles. He has worked out every day for over 22 years, 8054 days in a row! Bob’s dedication helps him to lead by example and be more effective at what he does.
 
Routine is extremely important in this regard. In my own life, I work out as well as meditate first thing in the morning. By doing this I tend to keep appointments throughout the day every day. If I were to hold off and work out after work I would not be disciplined in sticking to a routine.

D: Diet

We need to have control over ourselves before we can lead and motivate others. When it comes to diet, the key is finding what works for you. Proper diet and nutrition can significantly enhance energy, which helps you be a better leader. Intero’s COO Tom Tognoli is a great example of someone who controls his diet and maintains these habits each day, making him a distinguishable role model. This kind of self-discipline serves as incredible inspiration to others.

S: Sleep

More sleep tends to contribute to better success in life. It results in fewer mistakes and higher productivity throughout the day. Studies show that those who sleep seven to nine hours per night accomplish more than those who sleep less. If you lack sleep, you are sluggish, easily discouraged and pessimistic. Other people sense this. On the other hand, a good night’s sleep will give you energy and an upbeat and optimistic outlook. This will affect your team positively.

Make it a daily thing

Great leaders know that MEDS is key and needs to be followed every day. Those who follow this habit tend to have lasting impact, pushing their teams to success time after time.

Sounds pretty simple, right? Meditation, exercise, diet and sleep will make you mindful of your daily performance and you will no doubt become a more effective and superior leader in your business.

Special thanks to Matthew Ferry for the tip on MEDS! Taking our MEDS is most definitely a major ingredient for creating success.


Wednesday Wellness: No sweets challenge

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In a couple of weeks, I start a “no sweets” challenge with several friends, family members and clients. This is something I did last year with about 10 others to help navigate through the pies, candy, cookies, and cakes (and that was just during Halloween). The challenge is to help us stay healthy and not become the “8 pounds of fat gained” statistic. It was miraculous and over the holidays last year, I think I felt better than I ever had during that time of year!
 
One of my colleagues is doing this with me and someone asked her “why”, you don’t need to lose weight! Her point was, it isn’t about weight loss, it is about what she could add in to her diet where the sugar treats take up!
 
I loved that! She’s right! What do we take out of our diet, life, love, and everything in between which is filled up with something that might be tasty or “good” in a moment, yet pushes out something vital and healthy that we don’t make room for because of it?
 
Now, I’m not suggesting you take sweets out of your diet with us, or am I…but think about what kind of sugar (or metaphor like sugar) you are filling up your days with and what could take its place and enhance something you have been missing!


Wednesday Wellness: Keep Your Eye on the Prize

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When you were a kid, did you ever get those cereals which had a prize at the bottom? You know, the secret decoder ring, or the magic whistle? Even if you didn’t really love the cereal, you’d eat through it because of the super cool prize at the bottom!

This is what it’s like with diet and exercise! There’s this super cool prize at the end. You know it’s there, you know you’ll love the results, you just might have to eat a little sawdust along the way (not literally I hope).

The prize at the end of the journey is usually worth it if you keep your focus on the trinket!

Now that summer is (80%) here, get that cereal box out (i.e. exercise clothes) and run, walk, train and lunge your way to the super decoder ring. Nibble your way through carrots, lean proteins, greens and fruit to wear the trinket!

If you don’t rummage, you’re not likely to receive the gift of health at the end!


Wednesday Wellness: Life Planning

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Over the past week I have shared this analogy with several of my clients and it “sticks”!

Let’s say you are the family planner and financial budgeter. It’s October and you realize Christmas and property taxes are right around the corner. You know you will be spending quite a bit of money in December. Do you:

a)     Spend like there’s no tomorrow and worry about your credit card balances December 20th, hoping you’ll get a free offer for a new credit card around December 15th?

b)     In October, budget in order to be in the black come December 1st so that when you do need to buy presents you won’t go too far in the red

c)     Don’t worry about it much because you’ve already saved your money last summer and you have enough in the bank in order to safely skate through December without going into a national deficit.

Now let’s say you are going on a big trip with friends and/or family to Italy this summer. There’s wine, pasta, pizza, gelato and pounds to be gained (lots of them).   You are hoping to be in the best shape of your life before you travel to Italy. Do you…

a)     Crash diet 2 weeks before the trip, cleansing, detoxing, fasting and starving so you can have pizza, pasta and gelato (knowing you’ll gain it all back because you’ve only lost water and completely messed up your metabolism)

b)     Start to get in shape a couple of months before the big trip, working on your fitness, watching what you eat and starting to lose a few pounds before your adventure, hoping you can keep it off.

c)      Are already in shape because you planned on being in phenomenal shape several months before the event while at the same time creating lifelong habits of how to travel, what to eat and how to exercise; no matter where you are?   You know that when you get to Italy you will indulge a little but you will feel so great about your health, you won’t feel possessed to eat pizza and gelato like you will never have it again…ever?

Of course in each scenario, best case is “c”, and with “b” you can get by (barely). Unfortunately, so many of us choose “a” in our life, not just with our health and our budget…but everything. We put off what we know we need or want to do because somehow we make ourselves believe in the 11th hour we can always pull it together.

The problem isn’t that we pull it together; it’s that we never plan for what happens in the moment after we dodge the bullet. We stay on this inevitable roller coaster through life and are always living in the 9th inning so to speak.

It is late spring now. Most likely you have something fun planned for later in the summer which involves activities and indulging. Consider starting your spring training early and go into the home stretch already having achieved your goals!