Posts Tagged ‘freedom’

Wednesday Wellness: A Life of Freedom and Liberation

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By the time you read this, Independence Day will have passed; however memories from your celebration will still be lingering. The festivities surrounding this day, honors the Declaration of Independence and the freedom from tyranny and oppression, just to summarize it loosely.

I started thinking about other ways to celebrate freedom and independence. How freeing is it when you feel healthy and strong? How independent do you feel when you can navigate around difficult issues because you are healthy and strong? With the freedom our founding Fathers have provided for us, we have the ability to be as healthy as we choose. We have a wide variety of healthy food options, we have the option to go just about anywhere and climb any hill or mountain, and we have the choice to walk, run and/or ride just about anywhere which is public.

With the freedom and independence offered to you every day, what are you doing to celebrate? I heard someone comment on “liberation” today, asking what is it that I (you) would like to be liberated from or liberated to be able to do?

Pretty powerful I thought! So as you read this coming off of a fantastic weekend, celebrate not only the freedom of living in the United States, but consider other ways you have within your own choices created a life of freedom and liberation.


Monday Mojo: Road map to success

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Good Morning MOJO,
 
Last week I spoke to a group of about 70 Mortgage Bankers with Western Bancorp on what I would do if I were them to increase their business and be more successful at what they do. I went over a list of activities I would do if I were them, but first I started off by talking about why people start their own business’s, like being a Mortgage Banker. I stated it is typically because of the freedom and the unlimited earning potential and they all agreed. Unfortunately, freedom can also cost unlimited losses as well. What so many small business owners forget to understand is we have the freedom to set our schedule instead of having someone else set it for us, however, in order to be successful we still need to set some kind of a schedule. One which includes all of the activities we need to do to accomplish our goals, and then we need to live by it. It is our road map to success. No schedule leads to no business. A schedule filled with productive activities leads to a lot of business! It is simple to do, but unfortunately it is also simple not to do. Bottom line is, no matter how good your intentions are, if it is not in your schedule it is not going to happen, no matter how bad you want it. 
 
When I meet with people one on one about their business, the first question I always ask is to let me see their schedule. It is amazing to me how many people either do not have a schedule at all or if they do it is completely blank-both of those options are a train wreck waiting to happen!
 
We can’t just have it in our heads. Our minds are meant for creating ideas not storing them. We need to take the time to create our success plan, whatever it is and outline the things we need to do to accomplish it, then put those things in our schedule and stick with it day in day out…forever. Now, that is not to say we cannot make some adjustments along the way and modify our schedules to become more efficient, but we have to follow our directions/road map to success and that road map is our schedule. Way too many people spend the majority of their day thinking about what they need to do instead of doing what they need to do. I know it sounds so simple, but it is amazing how most people don’t have a detailed schedule with all of the things in it they need to do to accomplish their goals.    

Look at your goals as your destination on a trip halfway around the world to a beautiful and remote place you have never been to before and look at your schedule as your map/directions to get there. Could you imagine traveling half way around the world to a place you have never been and doing it without detailed directions and a plan? Of course not, we know we would get lost and never make it. Well the same thing applies with our goals and our schedule. We have never been where our goals are so we better have a detailed plan and schedule on how to get there and the discipline to follow it every day or we will never make it.
 
Remember as you set your schedule to keep your F-5 in mind and make sure you put time in to focus on all of them every week. What is your F-5 you ask? FAITH, FAMILY, FRIENDS, FITNESS, AND FINANCE.
 
Make it a POWERFUL week!!!!!


Wednesday Wellness: The Choice is Yours

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This past week I had the incredible opportunity to listen to an interview with Ingrid Betancourt, a Colombian politician who was held hostage in the jungle for over six years.

In 2002 Ms. Betancourt was abducted by the Marxist guerrilla group, the Fuerzas Armadas Revolucionarias de Colombia (FARC); never knowing from day to day if she would be killed, kept hostage or released. Read her story in Harper’s Bazaar.

Can you imagine, even for a moment, what it would be like to have no idea of your destiny or have any control over it? It’s hardly fathomable.

In one of the last comments Ms. Betancourt makes in this article, she says:

It got worse and worse. As it got worse, I decided that I had to learn from my condition. It wasn’t coincidence or mere accident that I was there. I had to give meaning to what I was going through. I decided that I needed to rethink everything about my life. And rethinking my whole life meant rethinking who I was and who I wanted to be. I lost everything — my hopes and future, and even something so basic as being able to talk to somebody or the freedom to go to the bathroom, eating or not eating — but I realized that I still had the most precious of all freedoms: deciding who I wanted to be. And nobody could ever take that from me.”

That last sentence got to me. She’s right, every one of us has a choice of “who” we want to be, how we want to react and what decisions we make each day to spark our happiness, our health, our relationships, everything. Each decision we make is a direct reflection of WHO we are!

If this sparks you, take a hold of who you are, who you emulate, who you represent and resemble and who you want others to see you as! It’s your choice!


Thursday Thoughts: Leadership Requires Sacrifice

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Next Monday is Memorial Day. Most of us will celebrate at backyard barbeques, in the company of friends and family, enjoying the fruits of our hard work.

But what are we celebrating?

We are celebrating – indeed, we are honoring – the courage of those who do what must be done, who bear the load for others so that they may be free to live their lives.

On Memorial Day we bear witness to the leadership demonstrated by the members of the armed forces – those who sacrifice so we don’t have to.

General Norman Schwarzkopf, who led America’s combat forces to victory in the first Gulf War, understands this sacrifice that comes with leadership.

In a speech about leadership to several hundred real estate executives assembled for a conference he posed the question, “Why do the troops go? Why do their families let them go?

His answer: They go because their country asks them to.

Schwarzkopf continued, “As I speak to you right now, somewhere in this great nation, servicemen and women are saying goodbye to their families as they go off to war. I know what it’s like. Think of the anxiety of a family that is saying goodbye to a loved one with absolutely no idea when they will see them again or worse yet if they will ever see them again alive.”

The general defines leadership as the ability to inspire people to willingly do that which they wouldn’t ordinarily do. He distinguishes managers from leaders: whereas managers oversee processes, systems or equipment, leaders lead people who have their own dreams and ambitions.

Sounding like a preacher delivering a Sunday morning sermon, Schwarzkopf emphatically stated: “Leadership involves a sense of duty. Leadership involves a value system. Leadership involves ethics. Leadership certainly involves integrity.”

So, as you enjoy our American freedoms this Memorial Day, join me in reflecting on the model of sacrifice and leadership embodied in the men and women of our Armed Forces.

Think, too, how you might apply that model to inspire others around you to higher ideals – those places they might not otherwise go.