Posts Tagged ‘positive’

Monday Mojo: The Answer to the Bazillion Dollar Questions is….

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Everyone threw in $50 and the winner will get over $1,000, second place about $600 and third place will get about $400.

We are a little over half way through a 3 month Biggest Loser Contest with a group of about 50 people at Intero. Everyone started out awesome and we lost over 300 pounds in the first few weeks as a group, but then it happened, the nastiest, most insidious disease in the world hit many people in the group – complacency.  As the novelty wore off and complacency started to creep in, the pounds stopped coming off as quickly. Then in some cases the pounds started to creep back on. Many, just threw in the towel and stopped doing their weekly weigh-ins and called it quits. Why couldn’t they stick with it? Why could they do it for a few weeks, but not for a few months or better yet a lifetime? That is the biggest question in life. That is the bazillion dollar question. WHY??

We are an instant gratification society and unfortunately if we don’t get what we want quickly most of us do not have the discipline to do what is necessary for the long haul. That is why the top 2 to 5 percent at almost anything in life end up with the majority of the results/prize. They are the ones who understand the power of the slight edge. They are the ones who have the discipline to fight off complacency.

Unfortunately almost anything worthwhile in life does not happen instantly. It is the ability to stick the course for the long term, long after most others around you have called it quits and thrown in the towel.  This action creates the massive breakthroughs/results.

Now there are a several people who have inspired us all in The Biggest Loser by kicking the crap out of complacency and have kept up their commitment and hard work. A couple of those great examples are Kelli Dixon who has lost over 12% of her body weight in about 8 weeks and looks amazing. Then there is Tom Hasco who has lost over 14% of his body weight. He says we have saved his life.  I can tell they both feel awesome. They actually have a glow about them I have never seen before.  It is INSPIRING! Kelli and Tom along with several others have answered the bazillion dollar question – they are not only the ones who are experiencing the results, but they are the ones who are going to win the prize.

The most important thing you can do to be a winner and fight off complacency with anything in life is to make sure you are spending the majority of your time with other winners and people who are incredibly discipline and positive. Spend the majority of your time with people who have what you want because we are going to be like the people we spend the majority of our time with.

Remember the key to success at anything in life is not how you start, but it is how you finish.

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Thursday Thoughts: Leaders are Problem Solvers

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Real Estate companies and branch offices, much like all organizations, have more than one leader. It is never just the owner, the CEO or the branch manager. Throughout the organization, individual agents and staff can stand out as individual leaders with the power to influence the direction and performance of the group. It is these interior leaders that make possible what the guy in charge is trying to accomplish. Because they have more day to day interaction with their peers, they serve as guideposts on the road to the leader’s objective. In a real estate company, they would be a branch manager; and in the branch office, they would be a highly respected agent.

In baseball they are called club house leaders. With Major League Baseball’s Spring Training in full swing, every team is looking to fill out the best possible roster of players. Every team is searching for the next five-tool player like the great Willie Mays who can run, throw, field, hit for average and hit for power.  But managers are looking for that clubhouse guy too; the interior leader who carries intangibles. They are often described as “coaches on the field” or “glue guys” because they help bring a team together. It is a rite of spring. The veteran who maybe has lost a step, or isn’t as fast or as strong as the rookie trying to make it to the Big Leagues, but come April you will hear that the rookie didn’t quite make it and the old veteran made it for one more campaign.

These interior leaders play a major role in creating the culture of the team, company or office by instilling either a positive or negative mindset in the group. These are influential people who have got the leader’s back – or are putting a knife in their back.

Here is how this principle applies to a real estate office. You, as a branch manager, may have both a positive leader and a negative leader in your office. The positive leader enhances what you are trying to accomplish. The negative leader detracts from the message and the atmosphere in the office. Both have the ability to influence the agents in your office. What you must understand is that there is a group of agents in the middle that can be swayed by either one. They are up for grabs. They can be swayed by the actions and the attitudes of these two types of leaders. If you find that middle group being influenced by the negative leader, you must address this immediately. You must get rid of any and all interior leaders that are contributing to a negative office/company culture; no matter how much they produce.

The problem solving leader must be aware that both exist in the group and both can amplify the message and culture of the organization or distort it. There is a reason why a player like Derek Jeter of the New York Yankees, while never dominating any statistical category, is simply known as “the captain” and why he stands with players like Babe Ruth and Lou Gehrig and Joe DiMaggio as one of the greatest Yankees ever. His contributions go far beyond the play on the field. His demeanor, his preparation, his ability and willingness to stand before the media every day and answer the questions for his teammates, win or lose, are intangibles that are invaluable to a team and necessary to win not one but multiple championships.

At Intero, we have many example of leaders like this that influence our culture in a positive way,  highlighted by San Mateo Manager Jerry Kiss, the winner of the 2008 Intero Leadership Award, and Los Altos agent, and winner of the 2008 Intero Value Award, Albert Garibaldi. Both men exhibit the measurable results by which we define success in our industry, but their contributions go far beyond that. They both influence others in a positive way through their actions and lead by example. Their willingness to give of themselves and their time to help their peers and make sure Intero is a better company every single day defines them as positive interior leaders.